The only thing that a woman wants to do to a man is destroy him so that she can move on to destroy someone else. Women are attracted to men that they haven't destroyed yet. Women destroy men by learning their secret. Just take Samson and Delilah as a case in point. Delilah was a typical modern women--souless, heartless, sociopathic and pathologically homocidal. The thing that attracted her to Samson was the thrill of the chase of learning the secret to his power. And he gave in and revealed his secret, and it destroyed him.
So never give women anything, and especially never give them your secret. I charge you by all the force of manhood within you to banish all women from your secret place. Then they will always be in the mood for you because you have starved them. And when she at last begs to be fed, turn her away and send her out in the cold hungry and alone. Then she will always be yours because she's knows she can never have you. She may hook up with someone else so that she can destroy him too. But she'll soon lose interest after he has revealed his secret and she has destroyed him. There is only one difference in what society styles as 'bad boys' and 'nice guys'. Bad boys aren't always bad, and nice guys are always nice. What society should style them as, if it actually was aware of what was happening, is as guys who keep their secret and guys who reveal it--Keepers and Tellers. Be the Keeper. The nice guy (teller) is the sort of love sick fool who reveals all the first week. The bad boy (keeper) is the guy who goes to his grave with his secret. Seen in such a light, things become more complex. Samson wussed out and turned into the 'nice guy' and Jesus Christ remained a 'bad boy'. Nice guys and bad boys have nothing to do with either nice or bad. It's all about Tellers and Keepers.