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Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Highly unlikely unless you both get individual councelling and couples councelling.
Yes, but you wouldn't go to bed with them and then think everything was wonderful within your relationship only for the same pattern to emerge within months (weeks?) down the road. You wouldn't want to hang with someone that caused you to get so violent.. Surely you wouldn't.Quote:
Some of you will probably start ranting that I'm just getting sucked back in. But stop and think for a second. If I smashed a random stranger's laptop, obviously I would owe them a new one.
So? Buy her another one, fk buy her 10 if you so desire. That doesn't mean you have to have anything else to do with her. You're bargaining again. That's what addicts do, Vince. They negotiate with themselves. I'll just have one more hit. Maybe I'll go the day without a hit, Yea.. I'll just have one more hit. What excuse can I use to call my supplier... maybe that broken laptop?Quote:
If I smashed your laptop, you would definitely want me to replace it. Right? So regardless of the history of our relationship, I owe her a laptop. Yeah, I bought the previous one for her. But I'm fairly certain that I'm not supposed to revoke gifts to people by smashing them. And as a busy college student, she really needs a laptop right away.
Sea said it in one line. Replace the laptop, give it to the mutual friend (her friend first I'm assuming) and then go zero contact. You've tried to raise this little girl for far to long. You're going to withdrawl from the addiction of being needed... A therapist will help you with that. He/she will also help you with all the guilt you hang onto from your past.