Originally Posted by
basilandthyme
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Why did you get so bent out of shape when I called you on your BS? I mean, now you're even admitting to it. You've gotta stop with the BS if you're to be successful.
Given the patronising manner in which you speak about your peers, I would very much expect that they do reject you. You say that you write differently here to how you behave real life - but I bet they see right through your façade. You need to be respectful to others to be respected in return - it's socialising 101.
I find that most adults make their own judgements on what a person is like. School children may follow the herd, but most adults don't. I certainly listen to warnings, but I make up my own mind about a person. Having said that, mostly I do find that when everyone dislikes a person, there's usually a good reason why.
Your upbringing may be relevant back when you were a kid. But you're an adult now, so no blaming of others for your current faults. You now have control over your own life, actions and behaviours.