Hello guys,
Being a typical girl, I overanalyze everything, lol.. It's not a trait of mine that I love, but I tend to do it a lot :P
I recently met up with a guy that I used to go to school with at a lounge. We hit it off right away, dancing, flirting, kissing, touching all night. I ended up leaving with a few girlfriends because we were all pretty drunk, without saying goodbye, so I messaged him in the morning. I apologized because I felt a little embarrassed because I knew we were all over eachother, lol. We exchanged numbers and he texted me almost everyday; in the morning, throughout the day, even to say goodnight to eachother. I've actually never texted with a guy this much before just getting to know each other... It was a good feeling that he wanted to know so much about me, and vice versa...
So fast forward to the weekend after we meet at the lounge and we arrange to meet up at a bar again. Chemistry was strong once again (but we were drunk, again..) and with a few of his friends. We ended up spending the night at his friends and just cuddling on the couch. He told me he had a lot of fun with me, and wanted to hang out all weekend so I basically spent the whole weekend with him at his place, which is like an hour out of the city. We were all shitfaced all weekend with his friends, but I know we all had a really good time, even though I can't remember most of the night haha. We ended up having sex apparently because he brought me to his place that Saturday night. Thing is, I don't remember having sex with him, at all.. I know I wasn't drugged or anything.. I just didn't drink responsibly, which I know was irresponsible :( We cuddled a bit in the morning and he drove me home, but he seemed a bit off on the ride back (like his head was somewhere else). I was expecting him to text me that day but he didn't till almost midnight asking how I was feeling, but it was a very short conversation. Last thing I said to him was how I didn't remember anything still and that I felt stupid and he made a remark about the sex but that was the last thing he said to me.. Even after I asked him how his night went, he didn't reply. I don't know if I'm overreacting.. I know he has a life and isn't going to devote it to texting me 24/7 but it just felt like he ignored my text all day because he was on Facebook, so he must've seen them :S
Does it sound like he used me for sex, like that was all he wanted, got it, and he's done talking to me via text? Another stupid thing that I did when drunk was tease him about how much he texted me lol, I wasnt being mean (I don't remember exactly what or how I said it) but I feel that could've hurt his feelings too and that's why he's pulling back from texting me now.. What does it sound like to you guys? & sorry for such a storybook :P I appreciate your thoughts!
Thanks :)