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I have a girlfriend who I've been going out with for nine months now, and everything has been going great. But recently I've been feeling very torn because it's hit me that I've got feelings for a girl I've known for four years, and is also my best friend. She is in a relationship too, but sometimes I get the vibe that she feels like this too. I'd usually go to her for advice on what to do, and I don't want to cheat obviously so anything from anyone would be greatly appreciated
It's gonna hurt what I'm about to say....you shouldn't be hanging out with or going for advice from someone you have feelings for when you are in a relationship. It's inappropriate and disrespectful of your GF. If you have an issue, you should be discussing those issues with your GF. Think about it.....how would you feel if your GF had a BFF that was a guy she has feelings for and goes to him to talk about private things. That would be disappointing would it not? It would be hurtful....so get your head out of your butt and stop speculating about this friend wanting to get with you. My advice is to cut it out, and distance yourself from her. This vibe you are feeling is all in your head because your brain is looking for clues to satisfy your want for her.
So a quick breakdown: Talk to your GF if you have any issues, or if you need advice...this is just the way it is in relationships...you will learn. Secondly, cut way down on communicating with this other girl. Once you have romantic feelings, she is no longer a friend, she is a love interest.
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