Ok, so the guy I have been seeing started a huge fight with me the other day because I have a low sex drive, but my low sex drive is caused by him. He is constantly grabbing my breasts til they hurt, trying to stick his finger in my a**hole and vaj thru my jeans and that hurts too. I have told him numerous times to stop, that it hurts, but he just rolls his eyes and laughs at me and keeps doing it. He did it one day while I was cooking and now I have a spiral scar on the palm of my hand from where I caught myself from falling into hot oil and caught the burner. And he wonders why I don't want to have sex. I need a man's perspective on this. Please help.