Phycho whore ex shows back up in the picture

My bf and his ex didnt have the most closure when they broke up. For the third time.

Why he broke up with her: She was always really jealous, insecure, fought almost everyday, he hated when she called, she always asked for him to buy her things and would get mad if he didnt, had to pick her up from work everyday, she wanted to be married really young and said if he didnt then he didnt love her, never wanted to talk about issues just get mad right away and start swinging, and also she started hanging out and talking to a guy from her work and hung out with him late at night/ early morning "watching movies" -_0 TONS of reasons to end it right?

My bf worked at the same place i did and we never really talked just an occasional joke now and then. One day they came in together and he was hugging on her and she looked like a total bitch. I called them out of the line to ring them up at the service desk and found out later that she gave him a huge silent treatment fight because he worked with me. wtf?

He broke up with her, she invited him over and cooked dinner and shit romantic which she never did then pulled her seductive moves they had sex and she was all "so were back together right?" No. He leaves. Feeling like an ass. He calls a few nights later to say how they shouldnt have had sex and its really over but the mom answered and she said that shes over at (the guy she works with's house) so he said fu(k it.

15 days later we start talking and hit it off right away. Weve been dating a year and a half and live together. They havent talked since. He changed his phone and phone number. He didnt want her to see he was with the kmart girl that she got so jealous over so he made any pics of me private on his myspace. (I hate myspace)

Anyway over a year of no contact and he gets a text from a call from a girl named nicole who he doesnt know. it says how are you. He tells her she has the wrong number and she says sorry but then over the next week he gets two more missed calls from this nicole girl. weird. Then he gets a call a few nights later. he recognizes the phone number as his ex's and looks at me with wide eyes. "Wtf?! Its my ex!" He ignores it and it really starts to bug him. He txts her saying what do you want how did you get this number etc. (there is NO way she could have got this number without digging because he doesnt have friends she could get it from and his family hates her) she ignores it. He starts calling her again and again and txting and now hes pissed off because hes scared that shes up to something. Finally she answers and is mad saying "One of your friends must have thought this was funny!" "I dont have fu(king friends!" "Maybe you should try harder then!" "How did you get this number?!" "Nicole told me to call it" "WHO THE FU(k is NICOLE?!!?!" Shes tell him to leave her alone and hangs up.


I have no idea how she got this number and he doesnt either. He swears he hasnt talked to her or anyone she knows and I know he hasnt. Im kindve worried that shes plotting something. Either trying to get back together with him or to hurt him physically. If she knows his phone number does she know where he lives now or who hes with? It creeps me out. Should I call her and be polite and ask whats going on? Shes unpredictable crazy and I prefer she doesnt have my phone number. Should we ignore this happened and see if she tries to contact him again? Should he go to her house and talk to her? What do you think?

I would do nothing .... unless you have italian friends in New Jersey.

Carl.

Ignore it


Though, him going out with a psycho like that does raise some questions about his character

Get a restraining order.

it'll pass with time... i'd go partying with my friend and forget about this bullshit.

raverboy

yeah I guess so. Even if she did try something I could totally drop her -_- Sissy city girl

Blood is gonna is gonna fuk her up

Ignore it, it will pass.

Why should YOU phone her? This is his problem. His crazy ex. If you think your BF is communicating with her, speak to HIM about it.

Suggest he just ignore this woman completely. Tho, sometimes as Mish suggests, this guy isn't innocent in all the goings-on. People tend to get what they give. If he has damaged this gal in some serious way, an apology could smooth things over. You could suggest he give it. But don't make that your issue, its still their problem. Hold your boundaries firm.

It a response that she wants. If she can't get the drama she craves she will give up and transfer her energies to some other hapless fool.

The more the fuel the fire, the harder it is to put out. Try to find amusement in the situation.

Shes difintally unstable. and she also more than likely has your adress as well. Trust me from a person who finds people using the internet all the time. finding a number and an adress isn't hard at all if your in nice neighbor hood. its teh dingy neighborhoods that get really hard to find people in. i suggest you watch your back and if youdo call her BE BLUNT AS A ****ING SPIKED MACE TO THE HEAD.