Forgotten Birthdays

Well im new year so i hope you hear my story. My gf and I are in a relationship for almost 9 years. we are having long distance at the moment for a almost a year. at first it was okay. but as time passes her time for me shortens, almost no text a day no time to chat. she always says im busy and im going out with my girl friends. i keep demanding for my time but i was no use. i told her to chose me or friend but sadly he choose them for me.
. i dont like her going out because not like i dont trust her but she keeps on making friends with other male persons on the bar she went and saying "they treat me its not bad as long as im not cheating on you you dont have to be mad" and she had a crush on a man on the bar they went and she had a crush on him. when we talk its always him. so i got mad. its not my fault right? then one day she had a text on me intented to his brother that saying he is persuading the boy because they had an argument. so i got mad again. finally last week she forgotten my birthday. i was really down and mad. i want to text her but i dont want to i might say something bad.
so my decision is to finally breaking up with her. i want to break up with her earlier but i was holding on to the 9 years we are together. but my efforts are all for nothing. we had a good 8 years but the last year is been very bad. people change very quickly.

thank you

Yep, it's time to let her go. I'm glad that you have come to this decision and won't be in limbo any longer.

Let her go and avoid long distance relationships in the future