Why, oh, Why? and other questions.
Now, I know it's probably not just men, but why do you pull out of a realtionship, a great relationship, to "figure things out?" What is there to figure out? I want to be with him, he wants to be with me. Talks about getting married moreso out of the realtionship then during it.
If you pull out of a relationship to figure things out, do you honestly have the intent of figuring things out, and getting back together, or is that just the easier way of saying "see ya later, it's been fun, thanks for the sex?" And if it's because you're really faliing in love, and are scared of it, why leave the person just to decide that you really want to be with the person? Why risk losing that person that you are genuinely in love with because it scares you that you want to be with them, if that is even the reason you need to "figure things out?" How long does it take to figure it out?
How often do you not mean it when you say "I love you" during sex, and are looking the person in the eyes (when you say it)?
Thanks for the insight. It all helps me.
P.S.
Sorry if a subject like this is already posted. I looked around a little before posting.