Exactly, and I think that's where most guys trip up.Quote:
Originally Posted by Venacava [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I once fell into the "nice guy" trap of telling myself that girls only liked the mean guys, and they never would go after a nice guy like me.
It's simple, once I realized they weren't turned off by my niceness, just the insecurity. Once you get the confidence, it's easy. Obviously, the confidence is the hardest part--but separating the two is the first step.