Out of curiosity I ask this :D

I am 21, I live in a dorm, I'm in good shape, I have no clue how girls think or how to get them to sleep with me lol, Normally I want a relationship. The computer network at my dorm monitors the networks to harass students who look at porn, so adult dating websites are out too. I'm kind of inept with women and have been on five dates my entire life. They are usually when the girl asks me out. I'm still a virgin. If I were to try to get some and there were some girls in the lobby of my dorm how should I attempt to seduce them without making a total ass of myself ? (it's a small 64 person dorm and only 32 of them are women so fing it up wouldn't be fun :( .) At the exact moment I really want to put all that exercise I've been doing for the last few months to good use, any advice?

Be yourself? Generally if you want a long lasting relationship you should try to befriend the girl you have your eye on. Don't ask her out, but say for the first few times ask a couple of the guys and girls to go watch a movie. Eg. "aw, I really wanna watch that facebook movie, you guys like facebook yeah? Why don't we all go together?" or alternatively you could ask them if they have facebook and add them. But depends on what you want and what they want. But good luck :)

Just be yourself, and ask a girl you like to go to the cinema, or anything that you think she may like

Dont be nervous, just ask the question

Good Luck

I diagree with the above posters. Don't be yourself. If that was working for you, then you would already be successful with girls. Instead, ask yourself what you want to be like. Do you wish you could dance well? Then sign up for lessons. Do you want to be more social? Then put yourself out there and introduce yourself to people including girls. Do you want to dress like a man? Then buy nice dress clothes and shoes instead of t-shirts and sandals

What in the hell kind of dorm are you living in? If I was harassed for watching porn, I'd be doing some ass-kicking!

Anyway, it's easy to meet people when you live in a dorm. So go make some female acquaintances. Maybe one of them will find you attractive and give you a chance. You have 32 shots it sounds like.

Yeah like doppelgaenger said, just mingle with the girls a bit. And remember, there might only be 32 in your dorm, but they'll have friends :) lol

Thanks I think I will just go out and use my laptop in the lobby lol. Then I might get girls to talk to me versus none at all when I'm in my room :P.