can she expect that from me?
Hi. I'm new here and I need an advice. I'm married since 4 years and I truly love my wife. Unfortunately it happened that I became infatuated with another woman. There was no sex involved but it was like an obsession, I couldn't let it go and it lasted more than a year. I know I did wrong. It was a bad choice and I'm really not proud of it. I know I have problems there because I must confess, something similiar happened at the beginning of our marriage. I was thankful my wife didn't leave me at that time. But now it happened again. I don't know whats wrong with me because I do love my wife. Anyway, this time she finally left me and said she would only come back if I would apologize to her in front of this woman. She said this way she would see if it was true what I told her, since I was lying a lot before. I think there she is going too far. How can I do this without putting myself in a very uncomfortable situation? Howelse can I prove that I had no sex with these women? I'm at a loss.