I wonder if he will be offended or feel it's an invasion of privacy should I tell him. I could see him feeling like this. And if he did I would feel bad about it... but at the same time I feel like I should and do need to go.
A friend suggested fibbing slightly about why I'd actually be attending. NOT say it's about my issue with porn (we've had the same fight over and over) and finally I said ok, this is the last time I bring it up. Issue is closed. So if he knew I'm still dealing with it he'd be fed up, annoyed, frusterated, and feeling like he just can't win... So can I say maybe I'd like to work on my self image? Some bullshit like that? My fear of aging? (Yeah, I know I'm nuts...)
I mean so far the things I've tried are epic fails!