Heres my story its a real crazy one need some advice
Well Im the Single guy shes a Married women who hasnt worn her ring since the day we met i fell totaly head over heals in love not some fake love like were i worry about her think about her all the time accept her for who she is bad and good she has 2 kids (i know thats messed up) and i love them and the are getting attached to me she told me she has had divorce papers written up but there still married and hasnt gone any further then getting papers she told me and i beleive she loves me and wants to be with me but she is starting to act distant and less effectionate i confront her about this and she says she is having trouble deciding between me and her husband to me this sounds wierd because if you truly love somone how can you be with somone else love somone else like she says she loves me i understand the kids are involved it makes leaving him hard but if she stays with him she would have to tell him about me or she would be living with her husband with this deep dark secrete i think that she loves me wants to be with me but leaving her husband and putting the kids through this is to much to bare my question is this is it better to keep the family together where a marriage is based on a lie and is totaly bullshit or leave him be happy with me its a tough one and before i get all this crap about hey just leave her shes married I HAVE TRIED REally HARD I TOLD HER TO GO WITH HIM THE KIDS NEED A DAD SHE JUST SAYS I LOVE YOU I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AND KEEPS TREATING ME LESS AND LESS EFFECTIONATE i think all this stress and crazy situation is making her unable to feel for cause of the guilt i asked her to marry me she said yes without even blinking and then she wouldnt wear the ring because she is still married and people who see it i have been trying to let her go stop talking to her but i cant i feel weak i even tried being a striaght asshole to get her to leave me that didnt work it hurts me so much to think of a future without her but seeing her hurting because of this decision hurts alot too soooo people hit me with your best shot.:(