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Elle, I hestitate to tell you only becasue I was looking for real love, without all the money, trips and expensive gifts. I'm looking for JUST a companion. And yes, I want money, but I only want enough to live a comfortable life. Believe me when I say: I'd take my "poor" guy over a old fart, who was a workoholic, who only bought me expensive yet meaningless gifts- anyday.
When I was rejected it's exactly the same as when a woman rejects a man who asks if he can buy her a drink or to dance. "Thank you, but no thanks" "I'm flattered but I have a gf".
How do I know he's not making fun of me? I don't, unless he's that big of an asshole that he turns around and laughs out loud. And if he did, thank god he turned me down- he's an asshole, and rude to boot.
A good guy would never say "it was YOU who wanted me..." and again if he did thank god I'm not wasting anymore time on this asshole.
so you just derectly asked him.. i think I'M not self confident at all then :upset: