Or would you prefer it? I have read conflicting things online about how some women find it dodgy that their partners watch it as a lot of the characters look under age and a lot of the scenes are to do with sometimes rape or submission.
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Or would you prefer it? I have read conflicting things online about how some women find it dodgy that their partners watch it as a lot of the characters look under age and a lot of the scenes are to do with sometimes rape or submission.
I'd find it dodgy personally.
Well, I never have had and probably never will have a boyfriend but if by chance I do end up with a guy and he were into anime porn I envision myself joining the fun and working it into our sex life. You never know, might be fun if approached with an open mind and I'll try just about anything at least once.
I guess it is better than someone into kiddie porn or, beastiality
If he is doing it just for a change then its ok but if he is regularly watching it then you should ask him what he like about it.....
I asked him and he says he likes the seduction techniques and the fact the one he mainly watches is about some octopus thing with loads of tentacles that the girl tries to kill at first but then the octopus puts one of its tentacles in her vagina and she tries to resist but ends up enjoying it. I find that rather strange and off putting. He says he has preferred anime porn for years.
So: Since you find it offputting, will you be trying to nag him out of watching it or will you allow him his alone time with it?
I ask because I've seen so many women trying to control their SO's fantasies, things that go on in their own mind and don't take away from the relationship it the least but their insecurities compel them to make a problem in their relationship that doesn't need to even exist.
It's not your cup of tea, fair enough but it is his so will you let him have it in peace?
As for me personally.. I've viewed a bit of it and do admit to getting a bit of a tingle at some of it but as a steady diet, I would imagine it would get old real quick for me.
To each their own.
Nah I wouldn't moan at him to stop watching it as I know he would watch it when I am out anyway but I find it disturbing when he actually tells me what happens it especially as he has said some of his friends watch hentai that have child characters in it :/
Good for you for letting him have a mind of his own. :)
As for telling you about it. Simply tell him that you are'nt interested in the details but thanks for wanting to share.
BTW: From what I've seen they are'nt "child" characters but rather women that simply dress up like children ala "naughty school girl" genre of the type that vanilla fantasizers indulge in regularily. (I could be wrong and I suppose the experts will advise of such if I am).
Once woman dressing up like a naughty chatholic school girls for their man was considered taboo and "disturbing" at one time too to many (specially the pope lol), certainly not now when you take a look at todays Halloween costumes ;)
There wouldn't be any point in saying to him "oh don't watch that!" cause yeah, he would just keep watching it when I'm away or keep watching it just to spite me at least lol. I've told him before that I'm not interested in it and says I'm a prude and should be able to talk to me about anything.
He told me yday that he has some hentai porn called Lolli something, totally forget the name but that is based on a child character and most guys he knows has it.
I'm no expert, but no, it isn't just adult women dressing up as kids. There are actually little girls involved (small waists, small or no boobs, big innocent eyes, short height, charachters actually SAY that they're children). Of course they're just drawings, but I can see why someone might find it disturbing.Quote:
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I've never watched it myself personally, from what I have seen and heard, it does sound too young and dodgy for me even if if they characters aren't children, they look too young in my own opinion.
I've heard some girls say yes they'd prefer if their man watched hentai because its only drawings but then others saying they'd find it disturbing because of how young the characters look sometimes and also how dodgy the storylines can be but then you get other girls that say if I a guy watches normal porn, he is pathetic and will probably cheat on them with some girl that looks like one from a porno.
Its all confusing lol
There are many types of hentai, not all of it is about little girls. There's plenty of anime porn that's only about adult women. I suggest you watch something, it may help you to either accept or understand that it's not for you to be with a guy who watches it. Why don't you ask him if you can watch one together?
As for the other statement, most guys watch "normal" porn (non-amatorial). It doesn't mean that they are all cheaters!
Yeah I didn't say I thought personally guys that watch normal porn are cheaters or more likely to cheat, I was saying what I have heard from other girls on the subject.
I would probably find it awkward to watch porn of any kind with him tbh, which I understand would sound pretty strange as we have been together for years. Watching it myself would be fine but I've never been keen on watching it with anyone but I know a lot of couples enjoy it.
So watch it by yourself then. Just to get an idea.
As for the "All guys watch porn but not all guys are cheaters" thing, I said it specifically to deny what other girls have told you.
In the vast majority of cases it's just fantasy, something a bit different that turns him on. Don't think too much into it, us blokes often are not that deep when it comes to porn, lol.
What they actually advertise somehow that they are little girls? I've not watched that long.. just a curiosity thing for me and I just viewed for a min. or two.Quote:
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Here's an example (I just googled it): http://akiranosaka.tumblr.com/Quote:
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Personally, I think it's rather disturbing. Do the girls in the hentai your boyfriend watches have boobs, OP?
Okay.. now that first pic was quite disturbing. Op if that particular type is what your bf finds titalating then I can see why you're angsty about it.
I dunno what kind he watches exactly because the thought of hentai has always reminded me of child porn :S all I know about his favourite one and the one he usually watches when I am out if something about a girl trying to kill some octopus thing and then the octopus penetrates her with one of the tentacles and she tries to resist and then ends up enjoying it.
I have never seen the appeal in that kind of porn. The wide eye look all the characters have and the high pitched voices would bug me too much for a start
Also, I just saw your link, yes Lolicon is what he mentioned. I knew it was something like that. Just clicked on the link, I feel sick after looking at the second pic :(
Yeah, it is sick, IMO. It's basically child porn, just not illegal and with no child actually getting hurt. I'd be concerned if my bf watched those type of things on a regular basis - I understand random curiosity (after all, I googled it too), but to actually get off on that stuff is pretty sick. I think you should talk to him about it - show him those pictures in case you need to make a point. Maybe he wasn't referring to that after all, there's plenty of hentai porn involving teenagers (post-pubescence), so that would be OK I guess, a huge part of "regular" porn is about teenagers anyway (which I personally find pretty sick as well, but hey, better than children!).Quote:
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The whole idea of hentai makes me uncomfortable as most of the characters look so young, whether they are meant to be young or not. The noises they make and their voices sound young too which makes it even more sick.
Yeah I do agree with what you are saying about the teenage part. I might take a sneak at his fave one. He told me the title of it so it'll be easy to find on his laptop and see if I really do have anything to worry bout. I know I'll be uncomfortable watching it regardless though
Ooh now you made me curious, what's the title? :-)
I'll have a check when I'm on his laptop next and report back to you. Don't know it off the top of my head lol