what should i think of this response from my bf?
so my bf and i had an amazing night last night. had some pretty hot sex, which we haven't done in awhile, and i felt like being really nice today. i bought him a bouquet of really pretty sunflowers from a local flower shop and had it delivered to his office. i put a little note on it saying "just wanted to say i love you"...
we go out for lunch (we work in the same city) and on my way back to my office i get a text message from him saying "aw thanks 4 flowers!" i send him a text back saying "love you. the guys aren't making fun are they?" (referring to his male coworkers) he responds by saying "nope, send chocolates next time tho lol u know me nom nom nom"
now my first reaction is to get upset, just because that's how i am. i'm thinking, i got him flowers to show him that i care and that i'm thinking about him and that i love him. yeah, he said thank you, but right afterwards he tells me i should have gotten him something different.
#1) do i have a right to be sorta upset or disappointed, or does being upset/disappointed make me a crazy bitch?
#2) if your gf/bf were to get you something that you know they did out of love, but that you don't really like, how would you slip the idea in their head that next time they should get you something different?
whats ironic is that i wanted to get him chocolates, but they wouldn't have been able to deliver today and it was ridiculously expensive for something i could just make him at home.
now i'm thinking that i should just overlook this, and go grab some strawberries and dip them in chocolate before he gets home from the gym and stuff tonight. but then again, i am sorta hurt that he said that to me the way he did and it would be hard for me to reward that.
advice please...