Older man:Complex situation-Please share
Hi, all...I would love if I could receive some mature advice here. I have been seeing a man almost 30 years older than I for over 6 months. I knew him for a year before dating. I have been divorced for a year and did not date until I found this amazing man. He is the most loving person and more kind to me than anyone could be, I feel. I am connected to him on a spiritual level...even though he is soon to be divorced from his wife who lives away and is still seeing an emotionally wrecked woman in another state. He is great, but his situation is complex. He and I speak openly---he is slowly starting to let go of an abusive wife and a clingy woman turned lover. And I am here, no attatchments, loving him well. I have never felt secondary in this situation...I am the one woman here who knows all sides of it and the one who is here supporting him and caring for him. I just know that in the future, I must be the only one in his life or I will have to force myself to move past him. I hope we only come closer together. We both love the same and are able to feel eachother completely. Should I even consider being here any longer? Is love blind? Do I need to love him but not share intimacy with him? Please respond with any good advice. It will be appreciated! *Sasha*