Did I do the wrong thing.

Been having an online relationship now for 4 months. He emails me every day and we also chat. Whenever we chat he always has to go. Usually 5 minutes into chatting he says he will have to go soon and it hurts. The last time he did it I sent him an email saying I appreciate our chats but don't understand why he always has to go so soon and I woud like him to tell me why so I can understand. I went on to say that if I understand then I can accept and perhaps I wont feel hurt. I have not heard a word and now think I have done the wrong thing. If only I had more faith in myself instead now I think have ruined it.

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stop wasting your time on the computer/
with illusions that people can have internet relationship.

relationship is get to know each other experience each other in different ways and see
and feel each other true hugs.
and see each others expression to know when its real or fake

right now u ar getting hurt by computer and something that inst real/

get out meet people in your country. sport clubs, hobby clubs.

that person that chat buddy yours know that its stupid so he dont waste time on the internet chat with u do.
he have more time for his real life.

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Originally Posted by geminimoongal [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Been having an online relationship now for 4 months. He emails me every day and we also chat. Whenever we chat he always has to go. Usually 5 minutes into chatting he says he will have to go soon and it hurts. The last time he did it I sent him an email saying I appreciate our chats but don't understand why he always has to go so soon and I woud like him to tell me why so I can understand. I went on to say that if I understand then I can accept and perhaps I wont feel hurt. I have not heard a word and now think I have done the wrong thing. If only I had more faith in myself instead now I think have ruined it.

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You've done the perfectly right thing, Gem because you need to know if he's leaving the chat quickly because he's hiding you from someone or, he's just on chat when he should be doing something else. His behaviour is suspect and if he doesn't answer you then you know, without a doubt that you've done the right thing by asking because now you can distance yourself from him and people like him who are disingenuous with their intentions.

The old saying "good riddance to bad rubbish" applies.

Perhaps he's struggling finding a way to tell you that online chatting is tedious.

Moved to 'Love forum' section.

Online relationship are a bad idea. I know you didn't ask, but they're a silly, waste of time at best. Find someone locally that you can actually spend time with on at least a semi-regular basis.

mostly online relationships doesn't work...