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Great question, even though i feel bad answering it, you seem young. This whole site seems young for christ sake. But when we were having sex regularly she would leave rake marks on my back and pant herself into a coma. You're just gonna have to take my word for it that I know what I'm doing. Women are all different and I adapt, she's always been a take your time ... slow and soft type. I can make her orgasm with any appendage. But after years and a kid and job stress and life and getting older its just grown infrequently. No idea if any 35+ year old women are here (I highly doubt it) but maybe they can shed some light on things. I can tell you toys, other people, any spice it up suggestions, serious or otherwise were not seriously entertained. She still enjoys sex when we have it ... its just incredibly infrequent.
Just for the record I am not a teenage 17 yr old. I am happily married myself after years of figuring out love and relationships etc.