What Is Something You Would Want To Hide?
I have a friend who loves to play mind games, and he usually doesn't like sharing details with anyone and neither do I. Today, we were talking, and he says that he has a secret. The hints he gave were:
1. He is the only one who knows
2. May not be bad
3. He deals with it every day
4. No STDS
5. No drinking or smoking
6. No eating disorder
7. It's something someone may want to hide.
He's 17, a junior in high school. He's in band and goes to church, and has quite a few friends, so i'm not really sure what it could be. He moved here from out of state two years ago, but we are pretty good friends. We go to the same school. There are many girls who like him, but he has told me he doesn't like them. He lives with his mom and dad, and little sister.
We are really close and all, but this really bothers me. Any ideas? :(
I'm female, he's male :) And he is extremely homophobic, no offense.
We have talked about the subject of sex before, and he wanted to wait until marriage for sex and everything, so I don't think virginity is a factor.
I would also like to say that there is a girl at our church, who goes to a different school, but is a senior, and is in love with him. Literally. By her definition of love, she is, of course, which is perfectly fine. She's told him and he hasn't really done anything about it. She spends all of her free time with him and is always doing things for him and all, but he remains neutral in a way.
He wants to wait to see if he likes her or not, after she graduates high school, to see how it would work out, since she is going to the community college nearby. He also stated that right now, he doesn't know if he likes her or not, that he isn't looking for a relationship with her right now, yet he never stops her flirting when all three of us are at church or somewhere else, and pretty much encourages it, like he does with most girls who flirt with him, due to the fact that he knows they like him.
All in all, it's starting to worry me about my friend.
To those who suggested he liked me(from a previous post elsewhere)
I don't really agree, because if someone says that we "look cute" together or suggests either one of us like the other, he usually makes disgusted faces and says he doesn't. But i'm not really sure, at this point. He's never really shown any interest in me. Yeah, we tease each other sexually, remarks usually, or little physical contact.
Also, he mentions that he wants the other girl and myself to attend the same college as him. But whenever he asks or brings it up, he's always saying how he and the other girl, Kimberly, are going to college together, which is really misleading in this situation.
