is it a good idea to say this?

if u guys wanna get background this is my situation:

Should i text her again?

ill just give it to u short. i am talking to a girl and she has been sick for about a week, i have texted her and everytime i text her the texts have gotten shorter and she seems less interested, im sick of waiting, and not knowing if she is genuinely interested. i texted her today and i asked her if she wanted to go out for coffee or lunch sometime and she said oh im still sick. so i said really? whats wrong? and she says she has a really bad cold. i dont really know the girl so hey, idk if she is really that sick or not. anyway i want to send her a text saying "that sux, well ill stop bothering u. i really wanna see u again tho. let me know when u get better, unless ur not interested anymore..." is it not a good idea to say unless ur not interested anymore...?

I'd go for something like...

"I'll get out of your hair. Let me know when you feel better!"

I think something along the lines of that is less of a "you might not like me. Forget you." statement.

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Originally Posted by Klim [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

"I'll get out of your hair. Let me know when you feel better!"

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This is the way i would go too, your orginal composed message seems too strong for someone you don't know that well plus your giving her time to think and make the next move if she is interested.