I want her back, because the reasons were stupid, how is she thinking?

Well.. This is basically me asking how she is thinking atm.. Because.. Now when I've broken up with my ex I can feel what the problem was.. and I regret things.. Because I didn't know.

Both of us had ex's that tore us apart.
Her ex boyfriend made her really insecure, and made her be very intolerant and feel unrespected and being the victim.
I didn't know before it was to late. Because I felt that she pushed me away, because I tried desperatly sometimes to just wanna fix this. Because, it seemed like she pushed me away. And that is simply because she was unsecure. But I didn't know.. so I pushed it..

I had an ex that cheated on me... That makes me think stuff like.. "Oh she doesn't want to talk, what is she doing" and so on. I think both our expierence crashed together.. and now when i know why it seems so stupid that we broke up.. I can fix this now that I know "the problem" i've done it before.. but not like this.

We broke up yesterday.. I know it's a bit early on.. and I won't talk with her for a while.. Both of us need.. "rest" But I was thinking... when she have gotten her strenght back.. do you think she would be able to "fight" once again?
Now when we/I know the reason.

It's like.. I figured it out, exatcly when it was too late...

How would you feel and think?