Distancing, a big, big turn off!
Hello Friends :)
On this journey called "Dating" I appear to be finding out more and more about myself. Both the positives and the negatives. My latest discovery appears to do a little with the issue of distancing. The distancing really frustrates me (E.g. Postponing of dates for no particular reason by the girl). It frustrates me so much that i feel like doing something terrible (Like omg, finding another date). I understand that it's not a big deal and I should not read too much into distancing issues, but it doesn't stop it from really bothering me. Which leaves me in a kind of a delima. I can either not mention anything and play it cool, while feeling a lot of frustration with this (Which will not make me a happy puppy) or I can talk to her about this issue, which may make me sound needy, pushy, clingy, <Insert any other cliche here> and push her into the distancing phase even more... Loose/Loose situation?
Hmm, it's a pickle even if it appears to be a very basic issue. Now, what does everyone think about this? :)
Thank you in advance for your help!!!