i no longer find my gf attractive
we been together about 2 years and live together 1 year, at the start is good and she was a little fat but for the past year she put on so much weight that i almost not able to find a girl fatter than her on the street. she never told me her weight but i believe is close to 80-90kg and she is 160cm short
i put on some weight too but nowhere near as much as her. sex used to be good i l1ck her all da time and she used to approch me and play with my @#$% and BJ, that gets me excited. but for the past few months she no longer BJ to the stage that i actually have to ask. but only thing she will do for the past year is let me lick her and and then i have to 'get it up' without any help from her side. she still wants to have sex but i no longer wants to have sex. a lot of the time i can't even get erection. and seeing all the much better body girls out there it's make me even less want to hav sex.
however, she is really nice girl looks after the house and looks after our dog, and she still wants to have sex. but i simply can't perform by just looking at her. her idea is that it's my duty to get her excited and then we can hav sex but problem is i am never excited.
what should i do, she wouldn't lose weight still eating like crazy, and we are growing apart so quickly,