Originally Posted by
TheEvilJester
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Sweet Christmas! I really wanted to give this guy the benefit of the doubt. For your sake, I wanted to believe that his intentions could be 100% innocent. That he could turn this around and find a way to still get to be friends with them, yet do so in a way that still kept you happy. That made you feel like YOU were his priority and not them. But, even after all you've talked to him about this already.... this latest development kind of takes the cake for me.
He charges over to watch them playing in their new sprinkler. For the sake of argument, I'm going to pretend for a minute that it was 100% innocent in his mind. I'm going to PRETEND because I don't believe for one milli-second that it was. But, I'm going to pretend that he wasn't doing so because he wanted to check out a couple attractive women scantily clad in only bathing suits frolicking about outside. Even then, he'd have to be a MORON not to see that it might look that way to you. Either that or an insensitive prick to KNOW it might look that way to you but not care anyway.
If nothing else, it is at the very least definitely time for a more serious conversation. So, yeah, you are right about that. Though, to be perfectly honest with you, if I were you I'd be out the door at this point. Let him stroke his pathetic male ego with a couple of gals way too young for him. Let him put more value in two girls he'll probably never get to touch and probably shouldn't anyway even if he could than in the woman who is not only age appropriate for him, but also could be the real thing.
But, that's me. I can't blame you if you at least want to try one last ditch effort to get him to wake the Hell up and grow the Hell up. Good luck to you either way. You deserve better than this, that is for sure. Maybe he actually can be that "better," but if not it sounds like you may need to move on for your own good.