I love my bestfriends lover.
So, my bestfriend Anna has had this "crush" I guess you could say, on this one guy named Ryan, Ok, it's more than just a crush, I think she may have been in love with him/still is. A year ago, they started sleeping with each other, and no relationship ever came out of it, but she was persistent and continued to sleep with him. Even though it was a year ago since they've slept together, he is still in our "group of friends" and they see each other on the weekends, anyway, the whole time they had their little fling, he always flirted with me and Anna always got mad at me, and he would find her to be crazy. Recently, he's been talking to me a lot, and I've been getting to know him, but I don't want to tell her because she would probably hate me, and probably cry and we wouldn't be friends. We text each other pretty much everyday, and get close when she's not around. I'm starting to fall for this guy, but I know I'm not supposed to. He's asked me to dinner and I had to (although I really wanted to say yes) refuse. I don't know if I should just stop talking to him, or if I should just go with what I want, because I know I'd be happy. HELP!?