I hav a crush on this girl and she 90 % a crush on me too (her friends told me this). I really want to date her but am worried she may reject me what do I do?
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I hav a crush on this girl and she 90 % a crush on me too (her friends told me this). I really want to date her but am worried she may reject me what do I do?
I like your odds with 9 out of 10 that she will say yes. If you always worry about rejection, you will never take a chance on anything. That's not the way to live your life.
Rejection is everywhere not only in love it makes part of life.
Do you choose to live a life in fear?
Do you really want to live a life full of I wonder if?
You have good odds on your side even if you didn't, Fail and Fail again you will always get up stronger and wiser.
Pick up the phone call her for a date, text her whatever GO FOR IT.
Fear of rejection is one of those funny ones. If you really think about it, the fear of rejection could well stop you from ever getting together by stopping you from even approaching the matter, and that is just as bad as being rejected anyway!! It doesn't matter that your scared. You have to just go for it, or, you might aswell accept that it will never happen.
Fear is always the same. When you really think about it you realise that it is always nonsense. Dont let it stop you doing anything! Come to know the feeling itself, which starts in your stomach, and this will enable you to overcome it. Be brave grasshopper. And if she does turn you down, say - "Only joking!".