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I was having dates with a guy, everything was ok for a week or so, then he began to be cold with me, and one day disappeared at all. Now I don’t know how I should act. I would like to make a final call and tell him what I think of it and quit our relationships, in order to try and to forget him. Should I do it or not?:(
If he just up and stopped calling you, that means you're not even worth an explanation to him. You're looking for closure as if you're in denial of reality. Maybe you liked him, seemingly a lot more than he did you, but you need to realize feelings were not mutual apparently and just get on with it. I'd recommend blacklisting his number and just forget about him.
I just think it will be easier for me to forget him and if he said goodbye himself thus killing my hopes
Call him if you wish. But it'll definitely make you seem desperate.
I don't think you should call him. He has already killed your hopes. He may beat about the bush if you call him. He sounds like the evasive type. Consider it ended and move on.
Don't call him. Just pretend he already said "bye" he said bye by never calling you again, don't you think that's a lot louder message then, "oh hey, sorry I didn't call ummm my mom was sick err, yeah I've been really busy- hey, I have to go talk to you later ok?" AWKWARD.
Sorry not that into you probaly a player
I say call the foo and get closure. Then block his ass. Imo.