me and my girl are together for 3 years and 8 months now. we started since December 2007. during college, we were always together, and we were sometimes branded as a "cute couple". i thought that everything was going okay and strong until 2 weeks ago. she is 22 and im 20 years old
about 2 weeks ago. she asked for some time off and said that the reason is she needs to find herself. she stated it included her plans for the future and that whenever her name is seen, my name is always there. as if we are inseparable. i gave her the time she needed and it lasted for a week. 3 days before the time off was over, she messaged me at skype" "hi! i love you :) i miss you :) talk to you monday. my phone has no battery, i forgot my charger". i was surprised and happy cause i felt that she really loves me. when monday came, we talked and said sorry for my shortcomings and she did too for hers. and she said that she cannot help but message me during the time off cause she misses me too much. 2 days after that, we spent the whole day together. i said that i will change my own self. never to become jealous of her friends and never to be hot tempered.
2 days ago, i wanted to see her again and i said that i will go to her house before she goes out with her friends for a concert. she got mad and told me not to be so clingy. because she allotted that day for her friends and i tend to text her nonstop whenever she doesnt reply immediately to my texts. she forgave me and the day after, i posted a cute quote on her facebook profile. she said not to do it. i asked if she is ashamed of having me as her boyfriend. she became sad and lonely after i said that. she told me she was definitely hurt by what i said. she said she isnt just used to being so publicly affectionate especially on facebook. i said sorry again and then we were okay.
then i tend to be jealous with her best girl friends and i tend to stalk her on her facebook.
i have a little buy and sell business and this coming thursday (sept1) she and her friends will attend a pop concert. my bag delivery was moved from wednesday to thursday so i asked her again if i can come to her house because after fetching the delivery, i will personally deliver it to my buyer but not for another 5 hours. so i planned to stall time with that 5 hours in her house. she again got mad and told me not to be so clingy and said i should let her feel that her decision to stop the time off is right. she said she alloted the sept 3 for me and sept 1 for her friends for the concert. i said sorry again and we are okay again
she texted this: i dont want you to think that im always mad. but right now im on the process of adjustments in our relationship. i said that i wanted time out, and i got it for a very short time. cause i thought about what you said of fixing things without going through a prolonged time off. so i went with that. but now, i cant help but think that did i make the right decision? i mean its been a week and as if you are going back to your old self. you tend to text and text. please, let me have the chance to miss you. then you tend to say sorry and sorry over and over again. i can't really explain it. but that's what i feel.
after that text, we became okay AGAIN.
so im going to ask, does she still love me? is the problem with me? can anybody explain what is happening? thank you :(
