Originally Posted by Bluevetteracer
Women HATE to be "required". They want to be around you because THEY WANT TO, not because if they leave you will fall apart. If they get the message from whatever signal a guy puts out, they feel obligation, and responsibility and that makes them run like a cockroach with the lights on.
The best way to approach this is like this. Don't let a significant other rock your boat. What I mean is, don't toss your life around for them. Make life work for you, and derive your self esteem, respect, happiness, and self being from yourself, school, work, friends, family, and faith. Not from someone else. No one can fix of fulfill your life, only compliment it.