if he will talk to me then ill be glad to even if i have to tie him to a chair.
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if he will talk to me then ill be glad to even if i have to tie him to a chair.
Ok. Next time you see him, tell him you want to talk about what happened that night. Then you can ask him anything you want.
I think this guy is suffering from a small case of rejection... perhaps he was expecting it to be like the movies and the 'no' rocked his self-esteem...
Am sure you can pick up again... perhaps approach another get-together and broach your position then.
Geezus. Can we please have a guy (i.e. a 'Y' chromosome) post in this thread and cut all the bullshit analyzing? Its pretty simple what happened but I'm a fem, and I think a guy could do this better.
Yea.. the guy that this bloody thread is about would do nicely. Go ask him, OP. Any other guy would just be adding his own conjecture and analyzing just like the X's.
There is a lot of anger and vindictiveness in this post... And a lot of misunderstanding of basic male psychology. Which is why you should not post under ask a male if you're not one, or at least understand men.Quote:
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What I wrote under your previous post. Get the out of "ask a male" threads. You're misleading the OP.Quote:
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Sixpacj stop wasting your time knit picking ....put it to better use by giving your view on the actual question at hand. The poor lady that started this thread is in need of your answer.
Not all men are the same, so you can't "understand men". You can "understand people", at best, and even then it's just a statistical average based on your experience.Quote:
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Guys post in the "ask a female" section too, personally I enjoy seeing the different points of view. Why don't you offer yours, instead of criticising others'?
OP - the guy prob just wanted to have sex with you. How old are you guys? I am guessing he is a little shy, preppy but a semi-cool guy lol. You had been hanging out for a while as just friends and he was waiting until he felt comfortable enough to put the moves on you. I also assume that neither of you have a ton of sexual experience. Can I ask what type of shoes he wears (seriously I'm curious)...anyway you turned him down and he feels all weird about his own actions NOT YOURS. He doesn't have much experience with women (probably comes from a family where he is either an only child or mild child with brothers?)...so he is just avoiding talking about the subject with you b/c that's what guys do they avoid. He prob. didn't and doesnt really care what you think or want a relationship with you. He is just concerned about how he will be able to have sex with some other girl. You are waisting your time thinkig about him. That's what I think :)
I don't see you actually posting your op, tho.Quote:
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The guy is avoiding her probably because he has been friend zoned or led on in the past. Since she never communicated to him as to why she turned him down, he just assumed it was a repeat of his past experiences. Sure as shit, this will happen again with her if she doesn't learn to communicate properly. As you can see, she also has trouble with social "clues" (possible aspi?).
i didnt say yes cuz i was shocked enough as it is to make out with him, muchless sleep with him. for once it is not my problem and he is too good of a friend to lose a friendship over this. even though i was shocked, i did like it, or else i would have stopped much sooner.... he has been avoiding me and when I saw him he saw me and we met eyes but he gave off such a bad vibe and face.
OP, don't tell me you still haven't talked to him... why did you even open this thread if you're not going to follow the advice in it?
Oh I bet he's mad. He really liked you, you know and thought things were going right......now he feels led on, cock teased, deceived, he is hurt. Everything he ever thought of you has changed.....if you want to be a good friend have some decency and go right up to him and explain yourself.....clear the air as they say.
No your problem? You told him no! and didn't explain why.