Young Love

I was in a very serious (or atleast i thought it was) relationship between the ages of 15-17. We were both sexually adventurous and for the latter part of our relationship that is pretty much all we did. we had a very strong bond, i guess from the fact that we were bot hso young, inexperienced, and naive. Im 21 now and im several months into another serious relationship. I can honestly say i havent taken any girl seriously since i was 17, 4 years ago. Why cant i stop thinking about my ex? i find that even with this girl that i am with now, i cant help but measure her up, not to my ex, but to the feelings she used to make me feel. I feel like im searching for a feeling and not a person. I dont remember much from that previous relationship. It ended poorl and it was a traumatizing experience on my part. How do i deal with what happened in the past so it doesnt mess up the situation im in right now?

You're probably thinking about your ex because she didn't have horrible vaginal odor. Tell your new g/f to take a vagisil.

Maybe you are still in love with your ex...I have been in the same situation where I am in a new relationship and I am still in love with my ex and always end up going back to her...But I would try your best to move on and if you can't maybe you need to ask yourself if you want to be with your ex...