Boyfriend of 51/2 years no engagement
bf and i have been together almost 6 years, living together 3 years.
He always been on and off about marriage to "throw me off". he doesn't want me to expect it but its only since last year he been more open and stuff about marriage..instead of being negetive when family brings it up he engages in it or if im watching wedding shows he lets me watch it and he watches too :)
He always said at least 5 years to get engaged so i asked him a few months ago what happened to "5 years thing"..bf says "it will happen when im ready"..then two-three months ago he said something i took it wrong i thought he didn't want marriage he laughs says "if we could be engaged we would be right now, im not afraid of marrying you, i just need to save for my car stuff which be done end of summer 2014, then its all you"..so told him don't make it sound like that i want him to want marriage too or else not the same. Now he moved his car buying stuff to next year and saving for something else but won't say.
Tonight his brother said "listen to your wife"..and he like "she not my wife yet"..then his dad like "listen he said yet Ally"....im like "yeah, but we are common law" then bf says "no three years" im likeb"no its a year sorry so we are kinda married"..then bf called me his wife couple times tonight. i kinda find it weird they calling me his wife ..i know his family considers me their in law but at one point his family would not talk like that around him and my bf would try change subject.
proposal soon?
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we are both 26