Did i come off too strong ending our friendship ?
We have the same group of friends, we are postgraduate students and not coworkers. I got rejected by her she played me around for attention. I tried moving on but that wasn't even possible. We started texting again and I finally asked her out yet again for coffee. She said she would love to go out for coffee but wouldn't do anything with a coworker. And the day she asks me for coffee, I rejected her offer and even her friendship, telling her that I was not interested in her as friends and I just couldn't pretend to be her friend anymore. If she changes her mind, she has my number and she could shoot me a text. Her reply, sure no problem, see you around. That was the end of it.
Now the question is that some of my friends think that I did the right thing being direct and going after what I wanted. If she was not interested why settle for less and why not move on. However, a few of my other friends tell me that I should had gone out with her even if it was a friendly coffee to get to know her. Things could had escalated from there and all relationships begin with a friendship. But my gut feeling was telling me that she wasn't just into me and I was going to waste my time.
Now we don't speak with each other anymore. She doesn't even spend time with the group and avoids me and our common friends at all costs. She has made new friends and is also talking with this other guy lately. Its like I did something terrible and I feel like a bad person. Is there any way that I can resolve this issue ?