Michelle, you are a bit over the top on some of your views on relationships to the point that you do sound obsessive and paranoid. Sometimes I read some of your comments and sit back and wonder if any man would actually want to be with you because I cant imagine them living a day with you without feeling like they need to navigate a mine field should they so much as develop friendships with females that do not include you. Being a couple does not mean that everything must be done together, even friendships. IF your BF develops a close platonic friendship with a female co-worker you would flip out and show him the door if you could not be a part of that friendship to police his activities to ensure they do not become too close in your opinion. That is obsessive and paranoid behavior. Sometimes you are so extreme I have to even ask myself if you actually have a man and if the relationship you discuss is a fantasy you created to justify and give credence to the advice you give. Your relationships just does not seem to be anything close to the realities that the rest of us live within. Perhaps you have found utopia in your relationship and if so congratulations to you and yours and may you live a long and happy life together. However, even if you have found utopia in a real relationship you need to realize that the rest of us are working on our own versions of utopia and just because something works for you and your BF does not mean it will work for everybody.