Wow! What is this? The 1920's? A guy should be paying for pretty much everything? What happened to equality? This is the 21st Century. The guy is saving for a house, most women would be over the moon at that, as it's putting money away for BOTH YOUR futures. I honestly think you dont deserve this guy. Why dont you spilt up, then date a whole bunch of random guys just to get your free lunch, while he goes out and gets a girl who appreciates him, especially when they move into that big house he bought with those savings, while you're still living with your parents. Who knows, maybe you'll end up with the kind of guy who takes all YOUR money, spends it on drink and drugs and gambling, and leaves you in mountains of debt. Argghh! This attitude totally irritates me. Poor guy!