"Girlfriend" ignoring me? Long text, take your time ;D
Greetings from Finland!
I've spent few months (4 to be exact) with a girl I've known for about 2 years. (Old friend, and a ex-girlfriend of my friend. ouch)
It all started when she started texting me all of the sudden. She asked how my days went in school and so on...
Later on, we started talking even more, sending messages in facebook and even seeing each other at hers place.
We both live in the same city during the summer, but during spring I lived about 50kilometers away from her (As I'm in different school than she).
Well, there were couple of times when I had to substitute some teachers at school in same city where this girl lives. I asked her if its okay to
sleep at hers place, so that I woudn't have to drive to work at morning. She always agreed to this.
During my stay, we watched movies, had some nice time together, did things together what first seemed that only couples would do.
There was this look in her eyes that told me, that she would like me.. more than in a "friend - way".
Time passes, we text a lot. One weekend (about 2 months from our first text episode) she came to my place, and we had a plan to go out with our
friends. When we arrived back at my place, we took some beverages, and after that I went to sleep.
The next thing is what scared me: Simply put, she came to my bed, kissed me and we had sex. She said that she had waited for this for a long time, and even got those birthcontrol pills for her... (Again, something that I'd categorize couples would do)
Time passes again, we text a lot, see each other at hers place, but do nothing like before, even kiss. This was the time when I thought that what happened at my place was totally because of her drinking a bit too much, and there's nothing more.
Few weeks ago, we started kissing goodbyes. I thought that this means that we're getting further with our relationship, I even slipped a note where I told her that I like her. I never heard her response to that.
Now, for the first time, I haven't recieved any text-messages from her for 48 hours. She isn't on facebook, either. It seems that she's totally ignoring me or something like that...
There's nothing to ask you from this, I only wanted to share this story to someone.. Got no friends who whould had the time and understanding for this.
Or yeah, I've got 1 question: What does she want? I'm totally frozen when it comes to finding a girl and starting dating etc...
And sorry for my bad english!
