I am in a situation that is quite hard to figure out.
Hi!
I am a girl who have fallen in love with a guy who is doing the same activity at the same club as me.
We met each other for almost a year ago, and we quickly became friends. I started to get feelings for that guy two months ago or something like that.
Two weeks ago, he told me that he was going to be away for 4 months, he is going to educate at some kind of... It's still not clear what he is going to educate himself to during those 4 months but anyways... Those news crushed me. But, he told me that at some weekends, he were free, so that we could hang out sometimes.
Four days later we met again, that day was his last day at our activity before he is going to do his education-thing. He told me that we could hang out on a Saturday, so we decided that I am going to his place watching some movies together.
When Saturday arrived, we met and hugged each other like we use to do everytime we meet each other. We went to his place, and started to watch movies.
I am going to make this kinda short, but he sat quite near me, then he took my hand, and then we kissed each other.
So that day I found out that he also had feeling for me too. That day was the best day of my life.
Now to the problem. We are not going to see each other for over 2 weeks till his first free-time-weekend-thing starts. And the biggest problem (in my opinion) between us is the communication. I don't want to seem like a needy girl, but I don't want to let it all die out. I want to text him often, but I try to stay away from that and text him not too often (is 2-3 times a week good enough?). I also think that I could call him once a week, or is that too often?
I am also afraid that something might change during the time we are away from each other, like that his feelings starts to die out, and he don't want to be with me anymore. Is that possible that it could happen?
And also, if I rarely communicate with him, could he stop liking me?
Oh and also, he told me that it was OK that I text him often, just that he won't respond as often as before. If I want to talk with him, I could just call him.
But I do not see that as "you can spam me messages, and you can call me everyday". I still try to limit myself.
To be clear, my questions:
How often should I text and call him without being annoying and needy?
Is it possible that his feelings die during the time we are away from each other?
Is it possible that his feelings die if I rarely communicates with him?
How am I feeling now? I am kinda down, and I am worried about... Well, the questions above, plus I want to meet him again so badly...
I know that my text isn't detailed, if you want more clear details or such, just tell me. I tried to make this as short as possible so it wasn't dead boring to read.
And also, sorry for any grammar mistakes. English isn't my first language.
