well poop. somebody toss me some insight. now :)
Ive been seeing this guy for about 8 months now, 6 of which its been pretty serious. Since we are at that 8 month mark, some of the haze and fog of new love is starting to fade and im seeing some things im not sure I like. Im not sure if these things are serious red flags. In his house, he still has pictures of him and his exes everywhere. still keeps the "toys" that he "used" with his exes" He has a daughter from a previous relationship and he insists on keeping me a secret from this woman and his justification is "she is really jealous and wont let me see my daughter if i have a girlfriend". He posts on his social media constantly and has NEVER posted about me or a picture of me or anything. With his previous relationships, all he ever did was talk about these girls and post a million selfies with them. I find myself to be much more attractive than his previous relationships (not that it matters but that helps me understand he isnt ashamed of me) He is AT LEAST ten years older than his exes. He likes them young. (he is 38) like in their early twenties. Although im 33 so im "old" compared to them. Im noticing that he has had like 4 girlfriends live with him in like 2 years. im beginning to think maybe something isnt right here. It really sucks because ive fallen head over heels for this guy and when its him and i, he is sooooo sweet and he constantly texts me to tell me he loves me or he is just thinking of me. he is always telling me he is grateful for me and everything i do for him. he seems to try very hard to make me happy and patient with me. We have never had a fight because he always backs down and handles me patiently. im so confused by this amazing guy and his bizarre habits. am i nuts?
