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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
yeah, i pull bs on vashti's post. it was much harder for my 20s then it is now.Quote:
Originally Posted by vampiress [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by Sonrisa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What was harder? The boys? That's because their drive diminishes in the 30s. ;)
The research was conducted by Alfred Kinsey, if you are interested. A lot of it has to do with the fact that women in their 30s orgasm more often than in their 20s, but this may be due to the fact that women in their 30s are more comfortable in their own skin, have more self-confidence, and have learned how to make sex more enjoyable. Their lovers tend to be more skilled, too. They don't call them the "dirty 30s" for nothing.
Here's another theory: [url=http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,2007422,00.html]Study: Why Older Women Have Higher Sex Drive - TIME[/url]
I think if you are in your 30s, it's a matter of use it or lose it, but if you are using it, you can never get enough.
a high sex drive has to be inspired. if you treat a woman badly, her sex drive will diminish. if you do it right though, you can have your own person little hoochie mama.
It's been my perception as a man that this is definitely true.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I may have"peaked" somewhere in my early 20's, but I didn't noticeably diminish in my 30's... but by 40 it was evident.
Man up by taking the moral low ground? No cheating for me as long as I can help it. I do appreciate your willingness to help though.Quote:
Originally Posted by rainydayznnight [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This I have to agree with. Last month was a terrible month, THE WHOLE MONTH, and why? All because of this situation. It didn't help that there is a hot woman at work who knows my situation and is still interested (not in cheating, but interested in me in general).Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hahaha.... maybe I'm misunderstanding? I think you'd be visiting the hospital with a displaced trachea if I punched you in the throat. Physical ability has nothing to do with morality, nor are higher morals an indicator of weakness. K? Good try on giving advice though [claps sarcastically].... You can exit the stage behind the curtain on the left... Don't call us, we'll call you [wink]Quote:
Originally Posted by Illusional [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You seem like the kind of person who is either denying this because you fit the description, and are therefore offended at my assertion, or you are one of those thick headed people who only believe what you want to believe. In any case... yeah you're totally right, everyone else has no idea what they're talking about unless it 100% coincides with what you've said. Yay you.Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This is so, so true. When I was 20-21, my sex drive was insane. I thought i had hit my sexual peak - and ironically, I had no one to indulge that drive with, because I had no boyfriend.
Now that I'm 30, I'm experiencing that very same thing again - only it's way more intense now. It is actually kind of a problem because it's making me really counterproductive.
I have got to find a boyfriend soon.
OP - How old is your wife?? Maybe you have something to look forward to? :)
I feel like a lot of men *think* we are leading on when we aren't...
Either way, you're not gonna die from it
I vote that you cheat on her, or at least separate from her first, then go sleep w/ the hot girl from work. Then get back with your wife if you still feel like it. No cheating necessary.
Yes, yes. Now, will all you ladies in your 30s raise your hands ? I'm conducting a clinical study on female sexuality, please write down your addresses and phone numbers here ... :P:DQuote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So am I a liar, or am I stupid?Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I can't wait til I'm 30
Seriously?! .. Are you telling the man to go cheat on his wife?! why?.. so she could turn the tables and play the victim role while he's become the bad guy! ...Quote:
Originally Posted by rainydayznnight [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I agree with this wholeheartedly. I've always had a healthy sex drive, but when I hit 35 it went through the roof! It's not calming down at all either. Shame I'm not seeing anyone if just for the release. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]