Raising kids is pretty much a full time job. That's my experience after 3 of them.
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Raising kids is pretty much a full time job. That's my experience after 3 of them.
And where exactly will single women get the money for daycare on a single income? Bear in mind, women making a significant amount of money necessary to support even a single child are still a minority.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
^^lol the men are still needed, mish don't get scared
*shhhh, you're not supposed to tell them* vashti...hehe
This with child support. Read it and weep.
[url]http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/03/nyregion/03women.html?_r=1[/url]
Young women in New York and several of the nation’s other largest cities who work full time have forged ahead of men in wages, according to an analysis of recent census data.
As far as I can see, the easiest thing for any man is to cross polenate as many women as possible and have the women raise their children on their own. If that's the new ideal for some women, if they no longer want to reward support then that's kinda sad.Quote:
Originally Posted by ecojeanne [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh well, I suppose go the new liberated man!
I would ask the question: how did it get to that point?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'd say through selfishness, ignorance and prideQuote:
Originally Posted by Yggdrasil [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So sad when there's a guy who has kids with like 4-5 different women...not caring about any of them...can't stand guys like that..but then again...i sometimes blame women for allowing themselves to get into that situation..
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Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lack of commitment? Peer pressure?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mishanya [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I rather think a combination of a lot of things.
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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Where's that gold digger?Quote:
Nationally, men’s wages in general declined while women’s remained the same.
Several experts also said that rising income for women might affect marriage rates if women expect their mates to have at least equivalent salaries and education.
“When New York college women say there are few eligible men around, they’re right if they mean they’ll only settle for someone with an education akin to their own,” Professor Hacker said.
Anyway, like the article says, “New York is an achievement-based city, and achievement here is based on how well you use your brain, not what you do with your back,”. Therefore, my work is safe.
in fairness mish it's not ultimately what most women want. women generally want a partner they love and respect for life. well that's what i want and i reckon most are with me on this
Yeah but that's hard work eco... and not everybody is willing to put that into a relation.. the hard work that is.Quote:
Originally Posted by ecojeanne [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You'd be safe anyway. Women love men that can work with their hands.Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I am trying to figure out how I should read that....Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The average cost per year of raising a child
Single-Parent Family
Age
of Child Total
0 to 2 5,440
3 to 5 6,150
6 to 8 6,910
9 to 11 6,440
12 to 14 6,920
15 to 17 7,670
Total 118,590
[url]http://moneycentral.msn.com/articles/family/kids/tlkidscost.asp[/url]
Average cost of living in New York
[url]http://www.law.monash.edu.au/castancentre/internships/gyorki-accommodation.html[/url]
Cost of living in New York in comparison to other cities
[url]http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0883960.html[/url]
FAIL!