Sex should be about him or her?
Well I have dated very little, and I am only 19. I have never had sex, I figured women would like it more if I made it about there pleasure instead of mine. But my friend (wich is a girl) says that what I do isn't the case. That most women get pleasure out of pleasing there men. Now I realize that it is important for both sides to feel fullfilled, but I feel just fine going down on a woman and getting nothing in return. As a matter of fact I like it that way, I have never had a girl go down on me or have had sex. I figured that how uncomplicated and easy to please men are that it would seem dull and no fun.
Now if it were up to me I would just rather lie in bed and hold each other. I thought at my age that girls didn't want sex. That it was all about the guys pleasure when things went on. And I just like it to be the opposite. I get pleasure out of pleasing a girl/woman. Am I doing something wrong?
