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Its just cruel truth that some of us will never be loved or happy! We are just born as ugly and shy and there is nothing you can do about it we are just bad people who only deserve to die alone in the dumpster and thats that! I just hate people who try to be heartfelt its so annoying and dont reply this comment saying "jesus loves u" because we all know that god is neither bourgeois or blind and deaf
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Well i will never believe that to be true, there is somebody out there for someone; some days get dark i know but there is always hope. confidence and positive attitude always helps as well, because if you want to change things, you are only one who can do something about changing them.
I'm not going to say that God or Jesus loves you because I'm atheist.
And from an atheist point of view, it's up to you to do the best you can to help yourself. Being unattractive can be helped by a makeover. Being shy can be overcome with therapy. Don't complain about the problem - FIX the problem.
very true, we all have our own issues and problems and must find a way of controlling them, before they control us.
Bah! You clearly dont know how it is to be shy. You can NEVER fullu cure shyness it will always be on you it can only be reduced and HOW THE **** do you think i will go to therapy if i cant even say "hi" to a ****ing bus driver since i am too scared! And im not ****ing girl i do not use make up...Quote:
Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How old are you?
Im 16... Soon 17Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That explains it :-). As you grow up, you will find it's not actually half as bad as it seems to be right now.
If you mean mentally growing up then im sorry to tell you but i have already done that and plz do not try to fill me with your pityfull hope since there is none and never will be...Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lol, you'll see :-). Or if you don't (by the age of, say, 21), get professional help.
As i told i cant get professional help since im too shy to even greet the shop lady. Id rather shot my self thank try to get therapy. And yes we will see when im 40 year old alchoholic that looks like a actual troll and has not even ever help girls hand... Yes we will see...Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Kalfusadon
You are awfully cynical for one so young. There are ways of overcoming shyness but it's not easy & it takes time. When I was a teenager I practically turned bright red if anybody talked to me; I was terrified of being singled out & I wanted to crawl under a rock rather than participate in most social situations. As I got older & wiser & got a bit more secure in myself, I grew into a confident woman. Few people who know me today would think I was shy then so there is hope . . . you just don't have enough perspective to see that yet.
There are also ways of overcoming ugliness. If you don't like the way you look, do something to change it -- lose or gain weight; get a hair cut; color your hair; get braces if your teeth are the issue . . . . once you get a little older if it's that bad, talk to a plastic surgeon.
Whatever you do, don't kill yourself. That is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
I think that your main problem is that you're a rude asshole. Your shyness and unattractiveness would pale in comparison to the former issue.
Although therapy would certainly do you good even right now, I was talking about later on, when you are older than 21, if you still see things the way you do now.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kalfusadon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
LOL @ Basil :D. She's right, you know. Not even therapy can cure rudeness as bad as yours.
You are asshole to yourself. Dont judge so hard, be a friend to yourself. Dont look better but feel better. Look for example at flowers. They are beautiful right? When there is sunshine they open up turn face to the sun and shade stays behind. When sun comes down they closes. Sunshine could be positive people and sun could be positive thoughts and emotions. Darkness is all the bad things.
Look at beautiful people what are the doing that you dont.
And speak. Lower your standarts on what you have to say and realise that its good enought just because you said it. What others are thinking of you is non of your bussines. They are seeing their reflection.
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Never ignore a person who loves you, cares for you, and misses you. Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep and realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars.
Why are you people so idiotic... I do not belive in anything else than faith and i know that my faith is to become what i have said and there is NOTHING that would change it whatever i ever want to do my mind telss me "hahaha you cant do it you ugly troll hahaah" so thats why i do not bother... I just sit alone in my room all the time and play wow. And its not only me i just finished primary school and went to vocational college to become a LVI-fitter (plummer) and at my old primary school EVERYONE agreed with me that i was completely hopeless man and i had no future even teachers agreed with that. At our last day of school my teacher told me "good luck... You will need it more than anyone" and if anyone ever tryed to fill me with hope i dropped them down from their clod castles and made them agree with me... And thats what im here for. Im trying to make people understand what truth is so anyone like me would not have to face that ugly truth at its most critical moment...
You are a troll all right.
I am dead serious. I am not a troll and never been...Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You keep saying the same things over & over. They are very defeatist. Now you are on an internet message board -- which is a way of reaching out -- & a bunch of independent people from all over the world are giving you the same message on how to fix the bad behaviors & improve your future. But you continue to insist you are right & we're all wrong. That doesn't make sense does it? Consider for a moment that we may be right & take our advice. At the very least tell a trusted family member that you are feeling hopeless & as that person to make an appointment with a mental health specialist if you are too shy to do it yourself.
It's plumber not plummer......
That is because all of you are just telling me to talk to someone! I CANT TALK TO ANYONE SINCE I AM TOO SHY!!! Not even to my family members! Thats why im in a endless labyrint and there is no way i can get out of there!Quote:
Originally Posted by DalM0m [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
More i know... (English is not my native tongue)Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
There IS medication to alleviate your symptoms. I have talked to a few people I work with that are on a medication type therapy and it really helped them a lot.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kalfusadon [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I do not really belive that i could just go to buy some random pills that would reduce my shyness without talking to doctor, and again im too shy to go to doctor...Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Your future looks bleak then because your condition will only get worse.
FINALLY someone accepts it!Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That isn't accepting it, it just stating a fact. I do not believe you should accept your fate NO! I believe you should refuse to let it happen.
I am dating someone now and happily in love with him. I think he has felt himself in your shoes. He really thought he'd never find love. But I see the good in him and I believe in him. I look past the imperfections and see what a cool person he is - we have an absolute ton in common and he makes me happy.
It has already happened i can no longer change it...Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You are either lying or then that bf of yours is some sort of alfa male and has not anything to do with my kind of people, my kind of people will never get a change...Quote:
Originally Posted by random20 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Can you hit print on your computer? Print out this thread. Highlight the parts you wrote. Hand it to your parents & go hide in your room. They will help you once they realize the extent of your problem.
That is the most stupid thing i could ever do, aaand my parents do not speak ANY english...Quote:
Originally Posted by DalM0m [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Nah, not doing anything about your problem is a MUCH stupider thing.
My mindset is too stubborn... Even if i wanted to do something about it my brain says "hahaah you cant cuz u too shy haha" and then im like "ok then" and therefore i am going to say that it was stubid idea...Quote:
Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well there isn't anything more to discuss is there........
There would not be... If you would just accept truth in my message that i am spreading... In the end i am the good guy since i am saving people from terrible dissapointments in their life!Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Definitely a WoW player...very dramatic :-)
No judgment here...I played WoW for several years. But anyway...do you know that online gaming and interaction is being studied for helping with several mental conditions? PTSD, depression, even severe shyness? Looks like you can interact on here just fine. Do you interact well in your guild or in raids with lots of people?
Either way..do your thing or don't do your thing or whatever. You'll either make it through and see the light or you won't.
Hey! I wonder if there are psychiatrists out there who will talk to you online? I think that would be a great idea for people who are painfully shy.
I play wow and Diablo3.....I'm looking to play something else.....you have any suggestions?
That is partly true i do get along well with people online but when it comes to eye to eye contact im completely retarted...Quote:
Originally Posted by Silent Siren [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Depends on what kind of games u like, if you like fantasy/medival kind of games then if u have not played skyrim definedly try it out and mount and blade series are also good, or if you are looking for pvp option there is lot of great mobas out there like lol, dota, smite and hon, or if u like diablo kind of dungeon cravlers then torchlight 2 or path of exile, there is a fewQuote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]