Being more aggressive in bed...

My boyfriend has mentioned a few times that he wants me to be more aggresive when we're messing around. just for the record we haven't had sex (although it's as close to it as possible) and we're both 17. but my question.. i get really embarassed about that sort of thing, and i WANT to be more aggressive for him, but i don't really know how without it seeming forced.

any comments?

Try to initiate stuff instead of waiting for him...maybe whisper to him in public that your not wearing any underwear....then make him suffer awhile before you take him to somewhere a little more private.....

yes, he means that he wants you to take control sometimes. trust me, guys really like it when their girls are the dominating force. raverboy