I need the opinion of women's tastes

Ladies, honest answers please.

Question 1: which body type would you prefer?
A. Muscular, big, and slightly chubby
B. Fit and lean

Question 2: which type of style?
A. Nerdy/professional
B. Gangster/thug

Question 3: attitude:
A. Asshole/jerk but sometimes sweet
B. Mr. always nice guy

I voted 2 ~ Fit & lean & nerdy (lol) and professional.

No one wants an asshole for a partner.

None. I prefer hard working, average, handy.

I like intelligent, funny, fit and sweet.

Fit and lean = Sporty and athletic.
Also, well groomed and educated.

No one should want anyone who only fits into these compartmentalized structures of what people think they should be like. I like a mixture of different things and find that most men I am attracted to have a separate, unique quality about them that I can't put my finger on... like a mysterious quality that makes me excited to get to know them better. F&ck the stupid categories.

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Originally Posted by melancholia [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

No one should want anyone who only fits into these compartmentalized structures of what people think they should be like. I like a mixture of different things and find that most men I am attracted to have a separate, unique quality about them that I can't put my finger on... like a mysterious quality that makes me excited to get to know them better.

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Hear, hear!

Usually, my "type"...to look at at least...is blonde, fair-skinned guys with blue or green eyes, not too tall (prefer one not much taller than I, hahaha), skinny, and not heavily muscled. But that's just to look at. None of the guys I've had crushes on have been like that...and my love is quite the opposite (well, he's nearly as short as I, and thin almost to the point of scrawniness, but his skin is dark, his eyes are dark and his hair is black). But personality wins every time. I like sweet, caring, kind, hardworking, idealistic, romantic guys...BIG plus if they're also smart.

I guess Intelligent could fit into Nerdy/Professional, I should have put intelligent instead though, because not all intelligent people are nerdy, they're smart.

Obviously there are so many more qualities to look for in a partner like tastes, how they talk, religious views or not, financial health, the list goes on. I just listed a few of the ones that are more easier to change such as body fit, material items like clothing, and attitude.

Also you should pick three choices (there's an A or B to each)

I chose, fit and lean, nerdy and professional and Mr. always nice guy.

While "Mr. Always-Nice-Guy" can be a good, I prefer "Mr. Always-Good-Guy". When men are too "nice", it comes off as insecure to me. Out of all the guys I've been with, the "always-nice-guys" become annoying to me real quick. Whereas the "always-good-guy" is nice, but not a pushover. My personality is way too aggressive to be with someone who can't put me in my place. If someone is too nice, I immediately steam roll them with my personality and get bored quickly.