Would really like a guys opinions on this one :) I will try to keep it short as possible.
Met a guy a year ago online and during all that time, we've been keeping in touch by chatting on the phone. He seemed real serious about me from day one, always talked as if we were in an exclusive relationship and was the one to initiate all calls and texts. During this year spent chatting, we had become very close. He had me wayyyy up there on a pedestal...reckoned he knew I was the 'one'....he could just 'feel it'. He'd wanted to meet me, from as little as 2 weeks of knowing me....however we are long distance and money was a problem..
Anyway I flaked on him a couple of times during that year, but he forgave me and stuck around and because I'd promised him that one day it would happen. But I told him not to get up his hopes, because in 'real' life, it is very different and I might not turn out to be, what he thinks I am. He insisted I would be what he wants...
We met a few nights ago for the very first time. I was nervous as heck and had a few drinks before I set off. I recognised him immediately and I ran over to him and gave him a smacker on the lips, LOL. He reciprocated that kiss, but I dunno...he didn't react, how I thought he would react. He used to say that when he saw me for first time, he would give me a huge hug...and that didn't happen, so I was real disappointed and immediatley began to think, that he was disappointed with me, that I wasn't what he was expecting.
I'd asked him if I looked like my pics and he said I was better than my pics. Said he was shocked because I was better than he'd been expecting and he made some remark about feeling 'inadequate' beside me. He began to be a bit more 'touchy feely' anyway, stuff like putting his arm around me and kissing my face. But I think he may have been doing that because I kept telling him that he could go home if he wasn't happy with me and I told him I wanted honesty from him. He said he was being honest.
He asked a few times during the course of the night, what I thought of him. Did I like him? Was he my type? Etc, etc....and he was all over me like a rash, once we got back to my house.
Yeah, we ended up having sex....it had been a year after all. Then after, said he had to head back home and I knew then that this was gonna be the last time I'd see him....I wasn't what he thought he was. Again Id asked him to be honest with me and to tell me and that whatever he told me, I'd be ok with it. But he insisted, he liked me and a lot. Anyway he left...
Since then and over the course of three days, I've heard from him once and that was the day after we'd met. He'd called me and said 'Do you want to still talk to me' and I'd said 'Yeah of course'. Then he asked how I was and I said ok and then Id told him that I was surprised he'd phoned because I hadnt thought he'd liked me. I then began talking about the night before and he interrupted and said he had to go, but he'd call me later. So I said 'ok'.....and since then, NOTHING, No call, no nothing...
Now guys, am I not wrong in thinking that if this had been a guy who'd been really 'into me' on meeting, he'd have been on the phone non stop with talk of wanting to see me again? Have to say however that he did have a habit prior to us meeting, of calling and saying he'd call back later and I sometimes wouldn't hear from him for a day or two...
But really. I honestly think he'd be calling more and especially if he liked me. Is he giving me the brush off by not calling?
Thanks and sorry this is long....
