ok. the cellphone user(the man) just suffered from a momentary lapse of judgement, and will probably never use his phone while driving again, whereas , the drunk driver(the woman) cant help herself, because they probably have a drink problem, therefore is an addict, and will probably do it again if left unchecked. so while you are still dead, both situations are completley different, much like the difference between a man and a woman cheating. one is likely to happen again and again, while the other was probably a one off. i rest my case