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As for sex and when to do what, I say it's about doing what feels right. I am not going to enforce some official set of rules on my sex life, or wait longer than feels right to preserve power or interest. I figure a good guy will be understanding if we aren't ready at the exact same moment and be a little patient...but a good guy also deserves a good gal, and playing games is not nice.
Men confuse me. On one hand some of them complain that they don't like waiting and until a woman is ready...on the other hand, some complain and when they have found themselves in a relationship with a female who has slept around all over and with other numerous men. They want a woman who will put out soon, yet they don't want a cheap slapper??...uhm WTF??
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And I know this makes me weird, but I am not ever going to be comfortable giving or receiving oral BEFORE I am comfortable enough to have intercourse with a dude. I can't imagine a scenario in which I would feel I knew a guy well enough on a second date to get that intimate physically, but I suppose it could happen....
Me neither. Unless I was having sex with him, oral would be out of the question also. If I'm giving him oral, I may as well be having sex with him.