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They're either desperate or want sex. No respectable man chases a woman who plays hard to get. A respectable man will want a respectable woman and a respectable woman will not play games. She will...

Give me a break lol

Of course not, but everyone knows most women don't pursue. And because of this she feels she can just sit back and let him do all the work

Nope, far from it

Who wants a woman who shows no effort when a guy is interested in her?

Problem is most women don't feel this way.....they expect the guy to do 100% of the legwork

Exactly right

No offence, as I respect what your daughter did, but the signs you mentioned above by no means indicate a boy is interested in a girl. Those are some common things most friends would do. I would...

It would be very refreshing to hear a girl admit she's scared to pursue a guy solely because she's afraid of being rejected. Any girl want to start on this forum???

What I'm saying is if a guy saw you on the street and was attracted to you and wanted to meet you, but you hadn't seen him yet, you'd probably want him to come up to you so you could meet. But if...

Oh, well ladies, just know guys have emotions and feelings just like you. We fall in love just like you, feel happy and sad just like you and want to be wanted and desired just like you. Most guys...

Honestly as a guy, it is such a huge turn-on when a girl you fancy chases you. One of the greatest feelings in the world. Why do girls think guys don't like to be chased?

Well I think it's great you raised her that way. I agree, many girls are taught it's bad to pursue guys, but how can it be bad to pursue what you feel inside is right, especially when it comes to...

I know. I see you're in your mid 40s. Was there as much game playing back when you were dating? I fear for what my kids will have to some day go through, cause I'm sure the game playing will just...

Good for you :) It's nice to see a woman who feels that way

Well than I think we have a problem world.....cause most times the guy is pursuing/showing more interest at the beginning

Well what I mean is say you're more interested than him. He still wants to go on dates with you, but you are more keen of him, than he is keen of you. It is you, not him initiating phone calls,...

So what would you do? Pursue the job, the guy, both or neither? You completely ignored the question I asked you.

Yes some do, but most girls will never pursue: probably along the lines of 20% pursue, 80% don't.

Well I'm glad you feel that way searock.

I don't understand why girls don't share the pursuing burden equally. Relationships are hard enough as they are, purposely creating unnecessary barriers...

Exactly, if they never try, they at least can say they weren't rejected and this makes them feel better about the situation. They rationalize it and try to convince themselves they did the right...

Bingo, they're just too afraid to admit it

Less than you think

Yet you probably expect the guy to chase you when you haven't showed any interest in him....double standard anyone??

You can say the same thing about the dream job. So you're saying you wouldn't pursue the dream job either? Cause there's plenty of other terrific jobs in the sea too.